I Let him have my heart!

Today I gave her a call just to check up on her.... She was not doing any better! She stated that she had been speaking with him and it kills her to hang up the phone with him. She also stated that that she had been seeing him at random moments. Every time she says it tears her heart more. She told me that she is in love with everything about him...His Smile ... his touch ... they way he says her name. She said she felt as if her soul was ripped from her. I asked her had she had a real talk with him? She said she had spoken with him and he has said he could not let her back in to the part of his life that she once was. She stated that she felt like he shot her in the heart!

As I pulled back I had to really think about it ... Had I ever felt that type that kind of Love or hurt? My friend was in pain... This man that meant so much to her walked away! How do I fix it? What words do I say? I then told her to sit down and look at what part she played in the break up! This is someone she wanted be married to have kids with then she had to get focused! She had to understand that he has feelings to and may not know how to show it!

I soon told her to clean her face out her self together and go find him! Be prepared for the rejection... but talk until you cant talk no more and Listen as hard as she can! I left my friend for the day and as I walked out I told her I would check on her the following day!

In life you have to take in consideration the other person's feelings and Listen with your ears and understand with your heart!!!

TTYL